Thursday, March 28, 2013

What do you know about Child Abuse?

Ask thirty parents what they know about child abuse and you'll probably get thirty different answers.  Sadly, stories about child abuse and neglect rarely make the front page or leading story of the nightly news.  The stories that do make it to the front are usually so horrific, the news can't help but cover the story.

Unfortunately, while the mainstream news is featuring the latest celebrity break-up, fiscal crisis or story about the war, the United States has quietly taken the top spot among industrialized nations when it comes to child abuse related deaths.  Approximately 80% of the children that die from abuse are under the age of 4.  This is unacceptable!  Have we become so desensitized to violence that we are subconsciously as a society, devaluing the lives of our most precious gifts?

Here are a few cold hard facts about child abuse that not many people are aware of:
  • For every crime a child predator is convicted of, there are on average, eight others that they get away with.  And over ninety percent of predators will re-offend at some point, but only three percent will be caught again because they've gotten smarter!
  • 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 7 boys will be a victim of child abuse or neglect before their 18th birthday.
  • A child abuse report is made every ten seconds in this country.
  • 90% of child sexual abuse victims know their attacker through a prior association (family, friends, service repair people, coaches, teachers, etc.)
I could go on and on but the picture doesn't get any prettier.  We, as a society, need to stand together and face this problem that has grown over 500% in the last 20 years.  Here are some of the signs a child may exhibit if they are being abused or neglected.
  • Unexplained burns, cuts, bruises, bite marks or welts
  • Inappropriate interest or knowledge of sexual acts
  • Sudden nightmares or bed wetting
  • Depression, loss of appetite, fear or particular people or places
  • Inability to concentrate, trouble in school, hostility
  • Dirty, extreme hunger, unsuitable clothing and lack of supervision
If you see any of these signs or you know something is terribly wrong in a child's life, please take action and call the authorities.  Let them sort out the situation.  You may have saved a child's life!

Remember - "If you fail to plan, Plan to fail!"

Until the next time...

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